Monthly Archives: March 2008

Last night I spent some time with peeps that were long overdue to spend time with. It sucks how we let work, business, “having a bf/gf” get in the way of the friendships that sustain us through those periods when we have nothing in us to pull from. When the barrel is down to nothing. You don’t realize how quickly time passes… has it really been two years?? This is truly unacceptable. So many good memories that the bad ones have long since disappeared. Then there are the friends that it becomes easier to just “deal with it later”. The ones you don’t want to tell to their face the things they need to hear. When you’ve dropped the ball of friendship and you’re arms are tired for holding it up to inbound yet you still can’t do it… Even to save yourself. Fear is a mighty thing. Then there are the special someones… those rare shining lights you happen across in some out of the way time or place. That friend you just connect with. You spark a friendship that is very real, you have much in common and get along so easily, yet there’s third person force makes it impossible to be friends, at least on a 1 to 1 basis. The jealous other that is suspicious of even the most innocent of conversations. And still the connection remains. There is a hope always that the spark that made your friendship will keep glowing long enough to outlast the flame of the moment. I saw all these people and more last night. It was taxing, but so worth the time. I am thankful for my moments and my friends. I think I’ll get out my flint…

I have this gadget on my igoogle. It gives me a new Buddhist quote for everyday. I don’t read them everyday. Today I decided to read it and this was there:

Well, well, well….. it appears that all systems have been put on stand-by, I mean liquefy, I mean char. In my quest for shelter I stuck myself firmly under the wing of the overprotective mother. You know the type. The one that doesn’t let their child do any-thing. To the extent that it develops a slowness, an atrophy of sorts. The brain starts to shut down from lack of use. I used to complain at the sheer volume of work I had before, frustrated that my counterpart wasn’t picking up the slack. I’d be upset that I could only work 8 hours because, even with a week of 10’s it wouldn’t be done. There was stress. But I loved the satisfaction of it all… the feeling that you had done something good, that you had helped. I don’t help. I pull staples. I send mail and answer the phone 5 or less times a day. I make powerpoint presentations that are insanely amazing (probably because I have nothing better to do than look for pictures and put together animations). I order office supplies and postage. Don’t get me wrong, all of these functions are important. However, someone being paid considerably less, that needs to learn how the office works and how to function within a system of professional standards, should be doing these things. My brain is angry at me for letting it slowly leak out onto my pillow at night. Yes, I went from the belly of the beast to the bosom of the sow. Overpaid and under-nursed I take each task and look at it with anticipation. Hope, no, pray even, that it will contain the golden egg of challenge. But no. I will not venture out of the barn today. At least the hay is soft here. There is no evil snake screaming at me and trying to bite me in the ass every three minutes. I’m liked all around and appreciated for my over-achiever type work ethic. I’ll stop ranting now and enjoy the barn. It could be worse, I could be in the snake pit..

Remember that scene from A Clockwork Orange where he’s in the institution getting well and they’re showing him the pictures? You know, the one where they have that crazy freakin eye contraption propping his lids wide open so he can’t stop himself from watching the ultra-violence? I want one. Maybe it will train my eyes to stay open even when I’m tired or more accurately, bored. Absolutely the worst thing in the world is boredom. It leads to sadness, depression, anger and a host of other bad things I shouldn’t be dealing with right now. So I’m sleepy at my desk. Maybe just some toothpicks, I can prop them apart with those. That little pain thing will only increase the likelihood that I won’t doze off.


So a couple of things to rant about… it’s been a while and I feel the need to bitch about stuff completely unrelated to me. Okay, not completely, but you know what I mean.


The gov, Arnie, ye old governator, has decided it’s in our best interest to chop 4.5 billion (yes that’s BILLION with a “B”) dollars from education. Hhhmmmm does anyone else see a problem here? How does he expect to increase revenue with uneducated people in the next generation? And funny, it is statistically (I have also witnessed this firsthand given my former job) proven that the less educated, the more likely to commit crimes and abuse drugs. So guess what, dumb fuck…. we’ll be paying that 4.5 billion somehow so let’s do it on the front side for good, rather than the backside to clean up the shit. Who voted this ass clown into office?


I still hate uggs and skirts/shorts. Stupid drivers are running amuck and no body is stopping them, but they sure are giving out a bunch of tickets for turning left over a double yellow on local roads. And if it isn’t the Jameson, then Cadbury mini eggs will be the death of me.


Tomorrow is hump-day yay! That’s all for now.

All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on.
~Havelock Ellis


I’m a brilliant fucking artist these days.

It seems the tide is ebbing. Even if just for a moment, I will enjoy the sun on the water and the peace shining on my face.


The cure for all things is salt water… sweat, tears or the sea. ~Isak Denison

familiar the pain of the unrequited
it’s sting so dull
deep
continuous
it’s force uninvited
taking the breath until you no longer feel
clouded eyes see only the heart
weakened by time
force
weariness
it can not be smart
never thinking through things left unsaid
a face that wears tears
stained
dry
realization strikes panic, fears
forever being alone in a crowd of one

I’ve come to the realization that the little illusion I’ve built out of toothpicks is buckling under the weight of my own delusion. Apparently I kept those rose colored glasses that I thought I threw away ages ago. I’ve been viewing my whatever it is through those damn things for almost a year. What’s the deal here? I liked those. They had a little bling… whatever. Glasses can’t protect you forever. Leave it to my brother to smash them. I’m not even mad at him. A little bitter for the moment but only for the moment. I love him. It seems he’s the only one that can punk me out in just the right way that I don’t want to scream at him, just cry and say ‘I knew that, you just said it out loud for me’. He knows me. He’s my brother.

Nowhere near where I thought he was. I know, I said that myself. That I’m done analyzing it. Sure I am… wait not really. Tears betray what the heart cannot hide. Rose colored glasses aren’t dark enough to hide behind. I think I have to get out from under the bridge of toothpicks. I feel splinters in my head an they don’t feel good. Better than the ones that will hit my heart. Too bad there’s no glasses to shield that.

The Bridge
The Loved Ones…

On the bridge made of stone
Stands a man all alone
The bridge was his motivation
It worked him to the bone
With every nail that he drove, it drove him farther from his own
In his punishing isolation, but the bridge just feels like home

She didn’t feel quite the same
She despised the bridge and who he became
She left in devastation
She left him there in shame

He said, “I don’t understand, this was not part of the plan…”
But it got lost in the translation
Like a castle made of sand

In all the years he’s spent struggling
He’s been haunted at every turn
He fights the fear as he’s growing old
And reminds us in all the he’s learned
That we build and burn

Burn!
Burn!
Burn!
Burn!

Here I am all alone
On that bridge made of stone
With smothering motivation, I’m working to the bone

In the end it’s what I’ve known
It’s what I hate, but have to show
The bridge is my dedication; the bridge just feels like home

In all the years I’ve been struggling
I’ve been haunted at every turn
I the fear as I’m growing old
And remembering all that I’ve learned
That we build and burn

In all the years he’s spent struggling
He’s been haunted at every turn
(We’ll build and burn)
He fights the fear as he’s growing old
And reminds us in all the he’s learned
That we build and burn

Burn!
Burn!
Burn!